Hey! I'm Tiffany
I’m a trauma resolution coach + certified sex coach and I’m here to empower you towards your ecstatic wholeness and vibrancy.
My story of trauma + Wholeness
Growing up after experiencing adverse childhood experiences can disrupt our lives and impact how we experience safety, our intimate relationships and sexuality.
As a young girl, I experienced childhood trauma and constantly felt unsafe, scared and trapped. After the adverse childhood experiences ended, I remember being 16 years old, experiencing PTSD, crying, huddling in a room and being panicked that someone would touch me.
I had no words to describe what was happening to me and while I had gone to therapy, no one told me how to integrate my trauma. On the outside many things were going well. However, living with unresolved childhood trauma affected every area of my life: my self-esteem, body image, relationships and sexuality.
It even affected my vagina! Starting at the age of 12 and lasting until my early thirties, I experienced chronic yeast infections, bladder infections and vaginal pain. I secretly felt shame that my vagina was constantly sick and in pain. So I distanced myself from her.
I only looked at her when I wanted to see if she was sick (again.)
I had sex when I really didn’t feel safe enough and experienced floating out of my body and dissociating myself from it.
I desperately wanted soulful love and connecting but my inner child was still running the show and getting triggered.
It was while I was in a sexless relationship, that I realized how my own trauma had placed a spell on every corner of my life. It was when I felt so sexually broken, that I made a conscious decision to heal in a new way.
My journey towards wholeness included studying with Layla Martin, one of the best sexuality specialists in the nation. I completed her 600+ hour Sex, Love and Relationship coaching certification program through The Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality.
I also began studying with my mentor, Rachael Maddox-one of the leading coaches in trauma integration and resolution. I studied with Rachael in her Rebloom Your Business (a trauma informed training program for experienced coaches) where I learned her transformation + healing natural health blueprint coherence practices. I continue to mentor with Rachael and immerse myself in trauma integration and healing.
I healed over 19+ years of chronic vaginal pain and bladder infections doing breath work in the middle of the Mexican jungle.
I learned how to connect, love and listen to my pussy and began living orgasmically.
I integrated years of childhood trauma and began to experience wholeness and how it feels to return to my true essence.
I began to come home to myself again and again and honor my own body and heart’s deep wisdom, desires and boundaries.
I saw how the combination of trauma integration and sacred sexuality work helped me come home to who I truly was and create a life that felt balanced, rooted, pleasurable and authentic.
You can find more about my values and coaching ethics here.